Take Care Of Yourself – Body, Soul, and Mind
The Third of the Seven Fields of Self-Leadership
When was the last time you took a real break—no phone, no agenda, just space to breathe?
Do you trust your own thoughts, or are you being silently shaped by your social feed?
And how well do you actually take care of your body, your soul, and your mind?
Do you create moments for reflection—or are you always rushing to the next thing?
In this episode, we explore the third field of my Seven Fields of Self-Leadership model:
Body, Soul, and Mind.
This field brings together your physical awareness and care, your spiritual and emotional depth, and your mental agility.
Taken together, they form the foundation for resilience, clarity, and sustainable performance.
We’ll look at how small daily habits—mental, physical, emotional—shape your ability to lead yourself and others effectively.
And I’ll ask you a few bold questions to help you check in with yourself.
Part 1 – Body: Rhythm, Rituals, Resilience
Let’s begin with the body—our most tangible starting point.
True self-leadership means being in touch with your physical self. That includes listening to your natural rhythms, caring for your energy reserves, and building rituals that support performance and recovery.
So I ask you:
What rhythms shape your day?
Do you work with your body—or against it?
In my coaching conversations, I hear repeatedly that many leaders find balance and clarity through endurance sports, yoga, or even long silent walks. It’s not about becoming a fitness guru—it’s about building a sustainable foundation for your mind to work at its best.
Simple rituals—like a morning stretch, drinking water consciously, or a walk between meetings—can reset your inner balance.
And yes, it requires self-discipline. But that’s the essence of self-leadership: choosing what sustains you instead of what merely stimulates you.
Part 2 – Mind: Thought Patterns and Mental Models
Let’s shift to the mind—your beliefs, assumptions, and inner dialogue.
What do you believe about yourself, especially when facing a challenge?
Do you trust in your capacity to shape outcomes—or do you fall into doubt?
Here, the concept of self-efficacy is crucial. Introduced by Albert Bandura, it describes our belief in our ability to handle situations and produce results.
It’s not motivational fluff—it’s a scientifically backed mindset that makes the difference between action and avoidance.
If your inner narrative says “I’ll figure it out,” you’re already on your way.
If it says “I always mess this up,” your actions—and your results—will follow that script.
This is why working on your thought patterns is not optional for self-leadership. It’s core work.
Start by identifying your internal stories. Where did they come from? Are they still serving you?
I invite you to revisit our earlier episode, Self-Leadership and Mental Strength. You’ll find practical tools and deeper insights there—just head over to bensmann-consulting.com/self-leadership-and-mental-strength.
Part 3 – Soul: Inner Attitude, Purpose, and Flow Balance
Now to the soul—perhaps the most elusive, yet most essential dimension.
In this context, soul refers to your sense of meaning, inner peace, and emotional balance. It also includes your values, your attitude toward life, and your ability to reflect and recalibrate.
Too many high-performing people operate on a transactional level: tasks, goals, results.
But without depth and alignment, even the most “successful” lives can feel hollow.
So here’s the key idea:
Don’t aim for a static work-life balance—it doesn’t exist. Instead, strive for a flow balance between your life areas.
Like a mobilé, the balance constantly shifts. When one part moves, others adjust.
A mobile is a kinetic sculpture made of delicately balanced or suspended components that move in response to air currents or motor power.
Which part of your mobilé is out of sync right now?
What would help you recalibrate?
It’s also time to ask yourself:
When was the last time you allowed yourself to be bored?
Leisure isn’t laziness. It’s a form of mental hygiene.
Brain researchers like Daniel Goleman emphasize that our attention, like a muscle, fatigues. We need periods of aimlessness, nature, and stillness to restore cognitive power.
Go outside. Leave the phone. Watch the clouds.
In these unstructured moments, our best ideas—and deepest calm—often surface.
Part 4 – Mindfulness and Strength for the Future
Mindfulness isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a necessity.
As trend researcher Matthias Horx puts it, mindfulness means that we’re not helplessly driven by our emotions. We become observers of our inner landscape. We develop a meta-awareness—watching ourselves think, feel, and act.
That’s powerful. That’s leadership.
Because mindful people don’t just react—they choose.
This is where you can begin right away:
- Start a small daily ritual—like 5 minutes of silence or journaling.
- Identify a limiting belief—and reframe it.
- Move your body intentionally, even if just for 10 minutes.
Over time, these tiny acts become anchors.
Excursus – Leading Yourself in the Age of AI
Let’s take a brief detour.
Self-leadership today also means understanding the systems that influence us—one of the most powerful being Artificial Intelligence.
AI already curates your news, shapes your social media feed, and suggests what you should think, buy, or do next.
But here’s the key: AI is not just a technological topic—it’s a leadership topic.
As I’ve discussed in recent blog posts and podcast episodes, AI systems are increasingly acting like invisible advisors.
They can support your productivity—or subtly steer your attention.
That’s why self-leadership in the age of AI means building a personal “AI cockpit”: a conscious overview of where and how AI influences your life and work.
You don’t have to be a tech expert.
But you do need clarity:
What tools actually serve your mission?
Which systems support your well-being, your focus, your values?
Ask yourself:
Are you leading the tools—or are the tools leading you?
AI-Based Call-to-Action
So here’s your second challenge for this week:
Take 10 minutes to reflect on your digital environment.
- What AI-powered tools do you use daily?
- Are they aligned with your personal goals—or are they just noise?
- Can you reclaim one part of your attention?
Choose one app or tool and either remove, replace, or reframe how you use it.
Self-leadership in a digital age begins with conscious choices—both analog and algorithmic.
Final Reflections and Action
So, how do we bring it all together?
- Nourish your body – movement, sleep, nutrition.
- Train your mind – challenge old thought patterns.
- Listen to your soul – what’s really meaningful now?
- Rebalance your life areas – adjust like a mobilé, not a scale.
- Protect your attention – especially from digital overload.
And above all:
What would it mean for you to lead yourself well—today?
Music Into & Outro by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud