How Do You Start Your Day?
I don’t know how you start your day, but I have always wondered how I can create a powerful and focused beginning to my workday.
Instead of “getting up, checking my smartphone, being driven by incoming messages, and forgetting what I actually wanted to accomplish that day,” I have found a different approach.
In my search for the right morning routine, I studied (and tested) Brendon Burchard’s concept, which involves starting the day with numerous questions. However, I found it too time-consuming and complex.
So, I asked myself: What is sustainable for me? What are the essential elements I can use to ‘prime’ myself each morning for the day ahead?
Below is my personal approach. Feel free to test it for yourself and adapt it to your needs.
The Four Questions I Ask Myself Each Morning
1. FOCUS: What is most important today?
I review my calendar and notes to identify the one most relevant task for the day. What requires my full attention? Where must I avoid distractions?
2. PEOPLE: Who do I want to support today?
This could be a conversation, a short message, or an email. Shifting the focus to others helps us avoid becoming too self-absorbed.
3. GOALS: What will I do today to move toward my mid-term goals?
It helps to keep mid-term goals visible. Revisiting them frequently reinforces them in our minds. What specific action can I take today to get one step closer to a key goal?
4. MESSAGE: What do I appreciate most about my life today?
I take a moment to reflect inwardly. What am I truly grateful for? Not just on a surface level—what deserves my attention and mindfulness today?
Before asking myself these four questions, I always reflect on the previous day:
• What went well?
• What needs improvement?
• What ideas, insights, or wishes emerged?
However, I do not use this routine on weekends, vacations, or when I’m sick—this helps maintain a clear distinction between work and downtime.
Outlook
The new episode of my English podcast, “Self-Leadership with Dr. Bensmann,” will be released on February 2nd. The topic: The episode is called “Control Your Life with The Seven Fields of Self-Leadership.” I will show you how self-leadership helps you stay focused, make better decisions, and take charge of your future. You will learn my proven Seven Fields Model—key areas that will help you lead yourself first so you can lead others effectively. Are you ready to take control and create real impact?