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Self-Leadership is the key

Are you overwhelmed by your day-to-day workload as an executive? Do you loose you course as a business owner? Are you successful but not happy as a CEO?

Maybe all this has to do with how you lead yourself… Let us talk about it!

Hello and welcome to the first episode of the podcast „Self-Leadership with Dr. Bensmann“. 

My name is Burkhard Bensmann. As a consultant, executive coach, and professor, I focus on empowering individuals to navigate the complexities of leadership and personal growth.

My mission is to empower leaders like you to not just survive, but thrive in an ever-changing world. I support you in recognizing your potential, developing it, and becoming truly effective. By mastering Self-Leadership, you won’t just perform better at work—you’ll feel more in control of your life, make clearer decisions, and experience more peace of mind.

After 200 episodes of my German podcast, it’s high time to bring you this English version—so here it is!

In this episode, we will:

  1. Discuss why this podcast should become your go-to source for Self-Leadership insights.
  2. Introduce the core principles of self-leadership and why they matter to you.
  3. Give you some quick tips to start optimizing your Self-Leadership today.

Music Into & Outro by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud

Leadership Strategies to Strengthen Your Mental Immune System

How are you doing in these weeks of the year? Are you feeling strong and full of optimism, or are you feeling drained and disheartened? Perhaps even overwhelmed by everything?

If it’s the latter, that’s a concern—because as a leader, your energy and state of mind influence your employees, customers, suppliers, and everyone you interact with. I want to focus on how we can strengthen our mental immune system and offer some practical tips to help you do so.

The Common Definition: Immune System = Defense System

The body’s immune system is described as a defense mechanism that combats pathogens. According to various sources, such as the Federal Ministry of Education and Research and the Helmholtz Center for Infection Research, the immune system protects the body through mechanical, chemical, and biological mechanisms. Without it, we would be defenseless against viruses and bacteria, leaving us vulnerable to severe infections.

A Broader Definition: Focusing on the “Mental Immune System”

Now, let’s broaden our perspective on the immune system. Consider, as an experiment, the concept of a “mental immune system.” There’s a scientific discipline dedicated to studying this—the field of psychoneuroimmunology (PNI), which examines the interactions between stress, the immune system, and the nervous system.

PNI research shows that:

  • Acute stress can temporarily stimulate the immune system.
  • Chronic stress can lead to immunodeficiency.

Larger studies have also demonstrated that the occurrence of colds correlates with the intensity of experienced stress. This highlights the importance of mental well-being for our physical health.

4 Tips to Strengthen Your Mental Immune System

In the context of effective self-leadership, it’s crucial to take full responsibility for your health and mental state. This includes finding ways to strengthen your resilience. Here are some tips to boost your mental immune system:

Tip #1: What Can We Learn from This Situation?

Use this question to position yourself and prepare for the future. Sprinkle curiosity into this phase—for yourself and your team. Curiosity helps you look beyond the obvious and navigate uncertainty. Often, new opportunities that were previously invisible will come into view.

Also, celebrate your successes! Despite difficult circumstances, highlight the achievements you’ve made as a team. It’s a powerful reminder of how far you’ve come.

Tip #2: When Low Energy Strikes, Focus on Your Goals and Values

When the feeling of low energy becomes overwhelming, try focusing on your goals and values. Write them down and make them visible:

  • What are my goals?
  • What strategies do I need to achieve them?
  • What are the next steps?
  • What can I accomplish in this moment?
  • What is within my control?

Start with small steps and realize that you always have some degree of influence over your situation. Cultivating mindfulness in the present moment can help restore a sense of security and replenish your energy reserves.

Tip #3: Treat Yourself with Compassion

We are often our own harshest critics, especially when things don’t go as planned. When feeling down, we tend to use critical language with ourselves—language we’d never use with a close friend.

Self-compassion is essential for maintaining mental well-being. Be patient and kind with yourself, and engage in supportive self-talk. You deserve the same understanding you would offer someone else in a tough situation.

Tip #4: Take Care of Yourself with Light, Movement, and Relaxation

Sunlight plays a vital role in our well-being and specifically for our immune system. So, take time each day to move your body, even if it’s just a walk during lunch. Disconnecting from work and enjoying fresh air can work wonders.

In my book, “Self-Leadership: The Key to Being Productive,” I discuss tools to enhance your effectiveness and satisfaction. It covers topics such as:

  • Boosting self-motivation
  • A formula for success
  • Effective learning strategies
  • The social media diet
  • Simplifying life

One entire chapter is dedicated to “Strengthening Your Mental Immune System,” providing tested strategies that can benefit you both personally and professionally.

Recommended Reading

BJ Fogg: Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything (2019)

Why read it?
This book offers a groundbreaking approach to creating lasting change by starting small. BJ Fogg demonstrates how tiny adjustments in daily routines can lead to significant personal and professional growth. It’s a must-read for anyone looking to build positive habits effortlessly and sustainably.

Numbers, Data, and Facts: A Source of Perspective

Are you, like me, a fan of numbers, data, and facts? I often find myself diving into studies, books, and podcast episodes that broaden my perspective and provide fresh insights.

In my work, current numbers, data, and facts play a significant role. Properly interpreting data requires a blend of methodical approaches and critical thinking. Several effective methods support this process:

  • Data visualization
  • Qualitative and quantitative analyses
  • Data literacy
  • Continuous reflection and adjustment

Perception, Self-Leadership, and Communication

The way people perceive the world is heavily influenced by their self-leadership and communication. I believe it’s essential for entrepreneurial individuals and leaders to reflect on and shape their own perceptions and thinking patterns.

Our view of the world is shaped by our experiences, values, and beliefs, yet these are not solid facts.

In my consulting and workshops, I encourage participants to:

  • Broaden their perspectives
  • Remain open to new ideas and approaches

This fosters personal growth and leads to better collaboration and innovation within organizations.

Indicators of a Fulfilling Life

In the realm of self-leadership and personal effectiveness, measurable indicators can guide us. Alongside (business) success, I believe these indicators also—or perhaps especially—include the criteria for a fulfilling, “good” life.

  • What should guide us?
  • What are the indicators of a good, fulfilling life?

In my current book, Self-Leadership: The Key To Being Productive, I dedicate a whole chapter to precisely these indicators of a good life. Among other things, I examine the approaches of Positive Psychology (Wellbeing) and the OECD’s Better Life Index.

Currently, my six indicators or conditions for “wellbeing” are:

  1. Creativity / Expression
  2. Using and Developing My Talents
  3. “Me Time”
  4. Making a Contribution
  5. Lightness
  6. Constructive Relationships

I regularly ask myself what my own conditions for contentment are. And, as you might expect, I check many numbers, data, and facts to answer this.

Warm regards,
Dr. Burkhard Bensmann

Finding Focus: Summer Reflections for Leaders

It’s summer, vacation season—a time often associated with relaxation and slowing down. But for many leaders, being “on” is constant, even during holidays. This busyness, however, doesn’t always equate to happiness.

If this resonates with you, here are some tips on how to pause and truly recharge.

Rituals for Recharging

To break free from the state of constant activity, rituals are essential. They act as intentional pauses, fostering mindfulness and focus.

  1. Meditation, prayer, or similar forms of being with oneself and focusing:
    Practiced daily, these rituals enhance our ability to be fully present in whatever we do. In other words, they help us stay focused.
  2. Journaling:
    Taking time to pause, organize thoughts, and gain some distance from daily life.
  3. Gratitude Rituals:
    In conversations with successful entrepreneurs, I’ve learned that they reflect on the day each evening, consciously recalling events they are grateful for. A gratitude journal is also helpful for this.
  4. Changing perception through travel:
    “Travel is a draught from the fountain of life.” ~ Christian Friedrich Hebbel. For me, traveling always feels like a mental switch. New impressions create new connections, both internally and externally. Physical movement often brings about mental movement, too.

Reflecting on Your Work and Life

The breathlessness of our turbulent times is often highlighted in pop culture—and it also characterizes how many organizations operate.

Still, perhaps you can use the summer months, aside from your vacation, for a relaxed reflection on your current work situation.

Consider these questions for contemplation:

  • What is truly important in my life right now?
  • What do I want to spend more time on in the future?
  • What am I ready to say STOP to?

Greg McKeown, bestselling author, offers this as a guiding decision-making principle:
“If it’s not a clear YES, it’s a clear NO.”

Warm regards,
Dr. Burkhard Bensmann